Thoughts for Tuesday

The buzz of the pandemic has died down, whilst conversation surrounding America's police brutality concerns has risen to the forefront of all major media outlets. Like many affected by this issue, I have spent an immense amount of time processing my thoughts on this overly familiar issue in urban communities. Most importantly, I've been thinking about my children, and how they've been processing all this calamity. Today, we'll discuss ways to converse with your children about prejudices and racism. It's important to ask your children how they are feeling about these topics as they arise according to child psychologists. Even if they can't articulate exactly how they feel, it's essential to make them feel understood. Make time to educate them on equality and treating others with respect. The "Golden Rule" can go a long way! Explain the ignorance behind stereotypes, and how they create a false bias against different cultural groups. If you are creating a hate filled narrative in your own life, now is a great time to "check your own privilege" so you don't pass those prejudices on to your kids. You may be thinking your children are too young for this topic, but research has shown that children aware of right and wrong can be taught about this crucial issue. Also, don't be afraid to allow your children to ask questions about what they see and hear from those around them. Only you know when it's best to dive into this topic with your children. Remember, you are your kids  best teacher! 
Until Next Time,
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Source: Parents.com

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