My Thoughts on the Danger of Entanglements!?!?

Recently, online this "entanglement" phrase has gotten a lot of attention. It's been memes and comments circulating like crazy. I'm honestly not enthused about people joking over such a serious common issue many people find themselves in. Despite, romantic comedies trying to convince people that love triangles are harmless and end great, real life definitely differs. People find themselves hurt badly when they are left on the outskirts. Especially when it involves a married couple. When a married couple decides to separate the person that gets "entangled" with one of those people have an increased chance of being hurt. There's quite a few reasons why this can happen. It's been proven that 40% of married couples attempt reconciliation within their marriage. Therefore, for starters some people have invested so much emotionally, spiritually, financially, etc into their marriages they still feel such a strong connection with their spouses. Also, sometimes people find that time apart is productive for their relationship. They spend their time working on themselves and want to reconnect with their spouse to resolve the issues they were having. As for that third wheel, this is a disadvantage. If they are forming a new profound relationship and believing this person is done with their former partner this can be devastating. They feel used and are left to take care of their own broken heart while the married couple continue on. I don't think situations like this should be praised or downplayed. I think it's best to take time to not seriously be involved with anyone if you are not certain on the status of their separation. I know some marriages do end after a separation, but most have hope of lasting until an actual divorce is filed. This does vary from case to case so take this advice as general. Just protect yourself from heartbreak and getting into a situation too soon with a freshly separated person. Understand they are usually broken from their marriage failing and can't heal from sleeping around. Then, you also have to figure out if you're comfortable with them still needing to be in contact with their former partner if kids are involved. Lastly, this can apply to people in long term relationships, not just married couples.
Until Next Time,
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  1. JayVJuly 19, 2020 at 10:31 AM

    Great read! I definitely agree with this. It’s all fun and games until someone gets hurts. You always have to be protect of your heart, mind, & spirit. Also, be mindful of the energies you let in during a very vulnerable moment. Typically not worth it.

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    1. *DESIREE*July 20, 2020 at 12:49 AM

      Yes, you've said a mouthful!!! Protecting your energy is so important!!!!! Thx for the constant support!!!

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